Sex is one topic which tends to raise the interest of many, especially the men. And sexual relations are something which tends to give some secret excitement.
While there are various forms of sexual relationships, the most prominent and common in today’s world seems to have become the extramarital sexual affairs. This is happening across various age groups after marriage and recently an interesting talk was happening which came to our notice.
The venue was the famous Jubilee Hills club and few men were going through drinks session and discussing on this subject. After few rounds of alcohol, truth started flowing out.
Few men said “There is a thrill in having extramarital sex. Both man and woman come without informing their partners and there is a kick in that. This is just like college days where we tend to hide things from parents and friends to meet with girlfriends or take them to parks or cinema theatres.”
Another person intervened and said “Sex with wife becomes like a boredom after few years. Extramarital relation tends to build the sex quotient. With wife, we no longer focus on fitness and health but when in an extramarital affair, we tend to take care of everything right from our dressing to health, fitness levels and personal grooming. In a way, that boosts my self confidence and makes me feel good.”
His friend added “In many offices we get to see bosses and their secretaries indulging in few quick romps. This also makes them health conscious and they maintain diet control and other things.” While all this is one side, another group of friends pinned it down on ethical and moral grounds. They also added “Extramarital affairs are nothing but unwanted tensions. The health will get spoiled. Especially, when we become fathers and have growing up kids we should never involve in such things.”
The one point that majority of them agreed is “Extramarital sex is not advisable. But if it is inevitable then it should be only physical. Once it gets emotional then it will ruin the entire thing. If one cannot have control over their heart then he better not think about opening his pants.”
