Though many don’t discuss it openly, the topic of sex is always interesting to people. And with growing awareness and knowledge, the aspect of having sexual fantasies is also growing. We have begun to live in times where sex has taken over the norms of society and there are those who indulge in sexual relationships outside the law of society. This could be a pre-marital or an extra-marital or simply an encounter of lust.
As if that is not wrong enough, new methods are being devised to give it a definition. This is what we call a licensed relationship. The most commonly used term for the society when a man and woman are sexually involved with each other is brother-sister. They will introduce their partner to outsiders as ‘Cousin’. And once they get inside their home, the equation changes. There are times when such things get identified but it is rather embarrassing to confront such individuals.
Another extension to it is the affair between older men and younger girls or vice versa. They are using the licensed relationship of ‘Uncle (Mama)’ or ‘Aunty (Aththa)’ to the outsiders and continuing with their affairs. There has been a significant increase in such affairs with licensed names to it. Relationship experts reveal that the key factor for an increase in this is due to the Facebook culture. Strangers becoming friends or getting introduced through friends are finding this as a medium to communicate and connect.
Of course, the thing to cheer about is, the percentage of such relationships is relatively low and even if they happen, they don’t tend to run for long. The experts are advising never to indulge in such physical equations as it tends to create an involuntary stress due to guilt and sometimes things get ugly leading to loss of reputation and integrity among family members. So folks, lust might possess you but don’t take it as inspiration and push your luck. You will land in major trouble.
As if that is not wrong enough, new methods are being devised to give it a definition. This is what we call a licensed relationship. The most commonly used term for the society when a man and woman are sexually involved with each other is brother-sister. They will introduce their partner to outsiders as ‘Cousin’. And once they get inside their home, the equation changes. There are times when such things get identified but it is rather embarrassing to confront such individuals.
Another extension to it is the affair between older men and younger girls or vice versa. They are using the licensed relationship of ‘Uncle (Mama)’ or ‘Aunty (Aththa)’ to the outsiders and continuing with their affairs. There has been a significant increase in such affairs with licensed names to it. Relationship experts reveal that the key factor for an increase in this is due to the Facebook culture. Strangers becoming friends or getting introduced through friends are finding this as a medium to communicate and connect.
Of course, the thing to cheer about is, the percentage of such relationships is relatively low and even if they happen, they don’t tend to run for long. The experts are advising never to indulge in such physical equations as it tends to create an involuntary stress due to guilt and sometimes things get ugly leading to loss of reputation and integrity among family members. So folks, lust might possess you but don’t take it as inspiration and push your luck. You will land in major trouble.
