Lives have become highly hectic and mechanical and when the things are not organized properly, the peace and tranquility of men and women are affecting badly. This is most rampant with Software Employees working in Indian cities. No organized life style, heavy traffic on roads, early fatigue everyday etc have been pulling down the enthusiasm in them. That is resulting in ‘bed’ related problems as being said by many sexologists.
While our Telugu community, especially fathers of brides and girls themselves go ga ga over the software professionals, here is a concern that has been brought to light. It is heard that some of the software employees have been going through a tough time when it comes to having sex. Apparently, there is no daily walking or exercise and most of the time is spent in front of the computer without any physical activity. This is affecting their metabolism and hence early dotage is observed.
So now, here are few tips from the experts. They say that it is better to have early morning sex. As the tensions calm down after a few hours of sleep, the men and women those come out of sleep in early morning hours feel libidinous. When they can manage to ‘do’ the performance also sounds better, say sexologists. Once ‘done’ and got readied to go to offices, they can enjoy the full day work without any fatigue, say some observers.
Few others are suggesting that if there is no libido or sex drive, get up at 5 am and watch some porn on net to get arousal. Though it may not be a proven formula, the feedback from those who followed it has been positive.
Perhaps a trial will give the true picture.
Ashok Naradasi, Bangalore
